Tweens and Preteens
The biggest danger for tweens is losing the connection to parents while struggling to find their place and connect in their peer world. The biggest danger for parents is trying to parent through power instead of through relationship, thus losing their influence.
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The foundations of staying connected and maintaining your influence during the preteen years.
Staying Connected
Preteens need more independence, but they still need our guidance. Learn how to stay connected while setting effective limits.
School, Friends & Social Pressure
Support your child as they navigate friendships, peer pressure, school stress, and the transition to middle school. For more support, visit the Social Skills, Bullying, Anxiety, and Learning & School Guides.
Smartphones, Screens & Social Media
For many families, the preteen years are when screens, smartphones, gaming, and social media become major concerns. Learn how to create healthy digital habits while maintaining your connection and influence. For more support, visit the Screens Guide.
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When Should Kids Get a Smart Phone? Rules for the First Phone
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When Is My Child Ready for Social Media?
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Need a Screen Reset? How to Reduce Screen Time Without Daily Battles
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Kids and Video Games: A Parent's Guide to Healthy Gaming
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When Your Child Lies About or Sneaks Video Games: What to Do
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Internet Safety for Kids: How to Keep Your Child Safe Online
Everyday Challenges
Practical guidance for common preteen questions and challenges. For more help with sleep, visit the Sleep Guide.
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Puberty & Body Image
Help your child navigate the physical and emotional changes of puberty with confidence, openness, and self-acceptance. For more support, visit the Body Image & Healthy Eating and Sex & Sexuality Guides.
